His job

So i got asked what i thought to be a weird question. Have i ever asked him to not continue on in his Army career once his contract is up. Well technically he has already chosen to work passed his contract o.o. Which he told me after he made the decision. He would have been out of the army today if he had choice to leave.(an i do mean today as in 3/26/10) ironic how i got asked this huh lol. But in all honesty iv never once complained about his job or asked him to leave. we have talked about things like what he'd do after the army but that's only if theres an after. I know for a fact that he loves his job an I'm proud of him for that. I here people complain about what their doing with there lives an how they hate their job. And although his job holds alot of responsibility an can be tiring an dangerous at the end of the day he wants to be there. He loves what he dose an is proud of it so why would i complain. ...An when i told my friend that she asked me what about you how do u feel about it even though he loves his job you still have to be clear across the country from him an if he would have considered you why was he willing to stay longer in the army. An to that i say yea it sucks he didn't talk to me about it but it's his life an he deserves to live it to the fullest when your in a relationship you should always consider the person your with but you should never put limitations on your own life. I'll always be sad when i half to say goodbye or worry ever time hes sent to Iraq but i love him so i accept all these terms. The way i see it is that to him I'm important an his job is important so he should never have to choose an i wont put him in a position where he has to.